WHEN YOU DO NOTHING, YOU GAIN NOTHING
Some of us are always looking to the scenery in the distance, scenery that is always ahead of us and never right where we are.
We revel in the beauty that seems so far away, almost untouchable.
It never dawns on us to take that same time to revel in the beauty that is right in front of us. We don’t appreciate the small things that make up the whole.
This is where I have changed my view in life because connection is so much more than a distant scene. Connection is about reveling in all the senses we are given and sharing them with other living creatures.
Originally, I began writing this piece on a sheet of paper, which came from a living organism. This living organism was weaved and threaded into the item that I molded my words on, which should be given energy of gratefulness that it gave its essence in order for me to create something else.
It was never meant to become paper. Instead, its purpose is to be giving the creatures with legs, oxygen to breathe in order to sustain our lives. In return, we give them their Carbon Dioxide so that they may sustain their life. We all have a cycles to go through.
I am someone who does not define herself by age, the money I make, my possessions, or my educational background. I work Full time as a Quality Assurance Coordinator for SK Food Group as well as run my business from wherever I am.
When I am told to “act my age”, I usually respond with “I am, my perception of age must be much different than yours, and your opinion of me does not make me who I am”.
My passions in life are:
- Helping others learn how to create the lives that they want, by learning how to overcome what is no longer of use to them while learning how to love themselves in every aspect.
- Getting to know different cultures and people.
- Building and teaching online business methods like Network Marketing Affiliate Marketing.
- Dallas Cowboys!! I love football both professional and High School especially when I get to watch my son play!
- Photography and Nature
- Learning True Self Help
Building a business and loving yourself, is truly an amazing feeling. There are so many people out there that will complain daily about their job, or complain that they just can’t make enough money, yet they won’t step out of their comfort zone to change it!
I spent A LOT of time learning many different self-help courses, and each one had something to teach, but the core to each one, is finding that part inside of you that loves and believes in yourself. Once you love and believe in yourself, in all aspects, your life will INSTANTLY change. I guarantee it!
Self Help DOES work, but it only works for those who can mentally reach inside themselves and find that piece of them (or pieces) that need to be fixed, changed, or gotten rid of. Not everyone gets it. Those who say Self Help doesn’t work are the ones who don’t have the vision, and prefer to continue living in their own self-pity and darkness.
I have run across many of those people in my line of work and in my personal life that have refused to let go of pity, negativity, skeletons, and baggage to better their emotional wellness. They choose to continue to blame others for their position in life, instead of breaking free of those people and finding their own self worth.
ONE of those many people I have met hit rock bottom in their emotional, drug induced grief, to finally emerge into the light and ask for true help. Today, she is a year drug free, and she wakes up every day now feeling like she has a true purpose in life. This woman, who I have witnessed over and over again, fall deep into self-pity and self-destruction, denying herself the chance to get better because she kept telling me that she didn’t deserve to get better. She was punishing herself for her past. Alcohol and drugs were her only friends.
One day, she woke up and found that she lost all her family, she lost all of her friends including me, she lost her home and worst of all, she had lost her daughter.
It was that moment she realized that she had to change. It was her attitude about life and her pity towards herself that she needed to change and she was going to prove it to herself that she could. It has been only a little over a year since this rock-bottom realization, in which she actually looked inside of herself and asked “What do I need to change, in order to get better?”.
For more of my version of this woman’s story you can find it HERE.
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